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      <image:caption>Singing video from Randy’s friend Kari. She might have been his best friend. She sent it to him and now it now circulates among my family and friends. She and I have sent it back and for to each other with me standing in for Randy.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>I like the quote, not so much the art.</image:caption>
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      <image:title>Blog - Death-i-versary part 3</image:title>
      <image:caption>I never thought about losing him</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>I couldn’t decide whether I wanted a candle burning for the photo or the candle after I blew it out.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Not to be confused with breath-a-versary, which marked the day he received new lungs.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>I don’t mind being alone, and I read a lot—which probably seems pathetic to people who aren’t voracious readers, but it isn’t. But I still miss him all the time.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>This is a photo he took so he could see what these frames looked like on his face. He couldn’t see clearly without his glasses so he took a photo, put his glasses on, and looked at it.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>He might be stern with me. It wouldn’t do any good though, and he knew it.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Mr. Hester - check out the sideburns and the tie</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>This is a digital card - maybe he realized he hadn’t bought a card so whipped this up in a hurry?</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>The huge mask he had to wear whenever he went out the first 6 months after the transplant</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Obviously not my town, not my legs - but I do have shoes sort of like this.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>I can settle for less happy than this.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>I don’t think I’ll ever have a tree again.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Terrible photo - I couldn’t get close and the barn is dark. There are three goats there, looking out at us the way we were looking in at them. Except they were less interested.</image:caption>
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    <lastmod>2024-08-27</lastmod>
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      <image:title>Blog - Am I home?</image:title>
      <image:caption>Cat on a suitcase</image:caption>
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    <lastmod>2024-08-23</lastmod>
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      <image:title>Blog - Good days and not so good days</image:title>
      <image:caption>Walk along the bay</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>He tended not to understand how what was good for him was not necessarily the same as what was good for me.</image:caption>
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      <image:title>Blog - Who am I going to be?</image:title>
      <image:caption>1992 on the way to Iowa via Wyoming</image:caption>
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      <image:title>Blog - Rollercoaster</image:title>
      <image:caption>Randy and his kids on some kind of rollercoaster at Great America</image:caption>
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      <image:title>Blog - In my head and my heart</image:title>
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      <image:title>Blog - Ambush</image:title>
      <image:caption>I always thought he was more handsome with a beard, but maybe not.</image:caption>
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    <lastmod>2024-05-25</lastmod>
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      <image:title>Blog - Retirement isn’t for everyone</image:title>
      <image:caption>Road trip, moving me from Iowa to California - we just liked to be together.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Sunny outside, rainy inside</image:caption>
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      <image:title>Blog - You could take a walk</image:title>
      <image:caption>This is where I walk.</image:caption>
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      <image:title>Blog - April 7: part 2</image:title>
      <image:caption>I wasn’t ready in so many ways.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>I try to see my time with Randy as a gift rather than a loss.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Possibly the last time I had bangs</image:caption>
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    <lastmod>2024-04-10</lastmod>
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      <image:title>Blog - April 6</image:title>
      <image:caption>He’s pretending to be a mannequin with his head on a headless clothing dummy.</image:caption>
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    <lastmod>2024-04-07</lastmod>
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      <image:title>Blog - April 5</image:title>
      <image:caption>He’s very thin here - this was taken at Hayley’s wedding not long before the transplant. He was dragging an oxygen tank behind him.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Not sure why he’s wearing a shirt in bed or why this is so grainy</image:caption>
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    <lastmod>2024-04-02</lastmod>
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    <lastmod>2024-03-30</lastmod>
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    <lastmod>2024-03-23</lastmod>
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      <image:caption>We could have taken more trips.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>He brought me tea.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>He loved birds - sometimes there would be herons on our lawn.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Good day - no rain</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>The inside of the card</image:caption>
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      <image:title>Blog - Valentines:       Take 1</image:title>
      <image:caption>The vase wasn’t red and there was no baby’s breath because Randy hated it, but you get the idea.</image:caption>
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      <image:title>Blog - First thing in the morning</image:title>
      <image:caption>He didn’t wear glasses then - those are a costume.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Our television is a little smaller than Randy’s computer monitor - some people have made fun of it to my face.</image:caption>
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      <image:title>Blog - It just keeps raining</image:title>
      <image:caption>The rain on the new windows.</image:caption>
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      <image:title>Blog - A word about grief groups</image:title>
      <image:caption>I miss him.</image:caption>
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      <image:title>Blog - I know you</image:title>
      <image:caption>This is where he was sitting when we had this conversation - it helps to remember it.</image:caption>
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      <image:title>Blog - Three best days</image:title>
      <image:caption>Not 28 years ago, but I don’t have photos from that time.</image:caption>
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      <image:title>Blog - Sometimes what is</image:title>
      <image:caption>A better hat</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Obviously Randy didn’t take this photo or it wouldn’t be fuzzy.</image:caption>
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      <image:title>Blog - The best find and the worst</image:title>
      <image:caption>He was funny as hell.</image:caption>
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      <image:title>Blog - It’s starting again</image:title>
      <image:caption>The paperwork</image:caption>
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      <image:title>Blog - Another first</image:title>
      <image:caption>Van Gogh was one of Randy’s favorite painters.</image:caption>
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      <image:title>Blog - Nice guy with a good heart</image:title>
      <image:caption>The overlook</image:caption>
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      <image:title>Blog - Symbols and metaphors</image:title>
      <image:caption>It almost looks like they’re supposed to be a necklace.</image:caption>
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      <image:title>Blog - Looking back</image:title>
      <image:caption>Taken soon after we moved in together - he was a good hugger.</image:caption>
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      <image:title>Blog - Bucket list - Just before I retired in January, Randy and I talked about making a list of things we wanted to do in the time he had left. At that point we thought we had at least 8 months, and he started a list of places we wanted to go as well as things to do. The list included a trip to Filoli, going back to Sunnyvale and Santa Clara to see how our old stomping grounds had changed, Golden Gate Park where our school had gone on field trips to the museum, the aquarium, and the Japanese tea garden. I found the list when I was moving his desk out of the room to make space for a hospital bed, and it really pissed me off so I threw it away. The Monday after he died, though, my daughters Erin and Kendall and I took a trip out there. The weather was beautiful, the flowers were beautiful, we had lunch (I had some sparkling wine out of a can - who knew?). I spent some time remembering the last time Randy had been there and wishing he had been able to come with us. He would have loved it.</image:title>
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